About one month ago, a friend of a friend of mine (Freaky Stories phrasing flashback) started a group Facebook message to see who would be interested in
throwing our friend a belated surprise party. Our girlfriend had planned a birthday celebration for herself a couple of months ago only to have her mother suddenly pass at a young age just one week before. Obviously, her party was cancelled and her birthday was the last thing that she felt like celebrating.
We wanted to show her how much she means to us and celebrate how awesome she is! Her husband was going away for the weekend, we were given the go ahead, and we knew the key pad code to their house so the surprise was underway and party planning commenced!
I was so excited; I love planning events and themed parties especially when it’s going to make someone I care about happy! I quickly created a secret Pinterest board so that she couldn’t see what we were pinning and I invited the other girls to the group (I have since made the board public). We all agreed that being comfy was key which is how the pyjama theme was chosen. These are a small collection of pins that initially inspired our party:
Together, we decided what we would all need to bring. We had a bit of a potluck snack table and we asked everyone if they were able to bring a bottle of wine, sheets, blankets, and pillows. Our plan was to make her living room into the comfiest place that we could – similar to a fort, but as if the fort collapsed and you just laid on tons of blankets and pillows! Since I live next door, we used many of my throw pillows (see Chris, I knew there was a reason we own so many), rearranged a bunch of her own, and made great use out of the sheets that the other girls brought.
Earlier that morning I blew up 31 balloons to make multiple ‘balloon bunting.’ I blew up a balloon and used scissors to cut a small hole in the tied end of the balloon. I then fed a long string of yarn through the hole and continued this process in patterned colours. It is so much easier than sticking balloons to the wall individually and cheaper than purchasing a helium tank. I got the idea from this pin that I didn’t end up using for my wedding (I wish I had because I loved how they turned out).
We started decorating her house at 3:30pm and the other invited women were to start arriving at 5:00pm. Surprisingly quickly, the room came together and surpassed our expectations – we couldn’t believe that it actually looked like examples that we had seen on Pinterest! The place transformed into a slumber party wonderland with tons of pillows, blankets, old sheets, a lot of balloons, three small strands of mini lights, vanilla tea lights, some banners, plastic table cloths, and streamers from the dollar store! This look was created by three girls in about an hour and a half – a very doable feat for you readers out there.
After our guest of honour arrived, our total was complete with seven women. The wine began to flow and we played games including a few Minute to Win it challenges, Catch Phrase, and Cards Against Humanity. There were lots of great conversations and laughter as we ate our delivered pizza and snacks. We ended the night with a very enthusiastic dance party to nostalgic songs from artists including Spice Girls, TLC, Destiny’s Child, Backstreet Boys, and Aqua. The dance party made sure that I was hurting the next day in more ways than one, but it was all worth it because:
A. it was so much fun and
B. our friend was happy!
Don’t be intimidated to try throwing a similar party yourself! It is easier than you would think and you definitely won’t regret the effort that you put into making your next girls-night-in extra special.